When people spoke of our marriage, they often used terms like kismet, destiny, serendipity, and soulmates, and there has yet to be an occasion when someone hadn’t asked the question that my husband and I dreaded the most:
“What is the secret to your relationship?”
As if we could bestow upon them some magical bit of information that could save their failing partnerships. The answer that no one wanted to hear, our truth, was that neither of us was particularly smart or possessed some life-altering dream within our hearts, we were simply two ignorant people playing with emotional matches which wasn’t a real problem because we loved the way each other burned.
We also pledged our immortal souls to the demon god of love, Jespurait, but surely that played no part in our enduring affection for one another.
It was a mere coincidence.
Text and Audio ©2019 & 2021 Rhyan Scorpio-Rhys
I don’t know what kismet mean, but I think it is something wonderful. Yes, it takes attention and hard work to keep the relationship strong. Great post.
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Kismet means that “something was meant to happen”, the same as “fate” or “destiny”. Thank you for the kind words!
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